As we get ready for the LagosMums Annual Parenting Conference 2025, let’s talk about how digital tools can make parenting neurodivergent children a little easier and a lot more connected.
Parenting a neurodivergent child often comes with a mix of love, learning, and a constant search for the right support. Every child’s needs are different, and what works for one may not work for another. Thankfully, technology has made that journey a bit lighter. With the right digital tools, parents can help their children build confidence, manage daily routines, improve communication, and express themselves in ways that feel natural to them.
But you don’t need every tool. The real advantage lies in finding the ones that support your child’s strengths while helping with the areas they struggle with most.
Understanding the Role of Technology
Technology can bridge many of the gaps neurodivergent children face. For some, it helps with communication especially children who are nonverbal or have speech delays. For others, it aids in learning, focus, or emotional regulation.
Digital tools can:
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Support communication and social interaction
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Encourage independence through visual schedules
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Help manage emotions and sensory overload
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Build focus and organization skills
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Provide learning games that adapt to different attention spans
The key is not to rely on technology as a replacement for parenting or therapy, but as a supportive tool that complements both.
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Children with ADHD benefit from focus and time management apps that keep tasks short and engaging.
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Children on the autism spectrum may find communication easier with AAC (Augmentative and Alternative Communication) apps.
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Children with dyslexia can use reading aids and text-to-speech apps to support learning.
What to Look For in a Digital Tool for a Neurodivergent Child
Choosing the right tools can feel overwhelming. Here are some practical things to keep in mind:
1. Simplicity matters.
Go for apps that are easy to use and visually clear. Too many buttons or bright colours can be distracting.
2. Look for customisation.
Every child is different. Choose tools that let you adjust the sound, colours, and settings to suit your child’s comfort.
3. Think about purpose, not popularity.
Just because an app has thousands of downloads doesn’t mean it will work for your child. Start by asking: “What challenge do I want this to solve?”
4. Choose tools backed by experts.
Look for apps created or reviewed by educators, therapists, or psychologists. These are often more reliable and safer.
5. Balance is key.
Even with helpful tools, human connection still matters most. Use technology to complement real-life interactions, not replace them.
Helpful Tech Categories to Explore For Neurodivergent Children
Let’s go through a few areas where technology can truly make a difference for neurodivergent children:
1. Communication and Speech
For Neurodivergent children who struggle to express themselves verbally like children with autism, AAC apps can help them communicate using pictures, symbols, or sounds.
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Examples: Proloquo2Go, Avaz AAC, Jellow Communicator.
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Parent tip: Use these apps during everyday routines—mealtime, playtime, or outings—so communication becomes natural.
2. Focus and Organisation
If your child has ADHD and has trouble staying on task or remembering routines, visual schedule or reminder apps can help.
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Examples: Choiceworks Calendar, Time Timer, Brili Routines.
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Parent tip: Set short, achievable goals and celebrate small wins. “You finished your homework before the timer? Great job!”
3. Learning and Literacy
Children with dyslexia or other learning disabilities may find reading and writing easier with assistive apps.
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Examples: Speechify, Ghotit, ModMath.
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Parent tip: Use the tool side-by-side with your child at first. It builds confidence and strengthens your bond.
4. Emotional Regulation
Many neurodivergent children struggle with big feelings. Some apps help children identify emotions and practice calming techniques.
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Examples: Calm Kids, Breathe, Think, Do with Sesame, Mindful Powers.
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Parent tip: Pair these apps with real conversations. Ask, “How did you feel after using that breathing game?”
How to Introduce Digital Tools to Your Neurodivergent Child
Even the best app will only help if your child feels comfortable using it. Here are some ways to make that transition smooth:
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Explain why. Let them know how the app helps, “This one reminds us when it’s time to take a break” or “This helps you tell me how you feel.”
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Start small. Use the tool for one simple task at a time.
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Keep it consistent. Schedule app use at regular times, like after school or during morning prep.
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Stay involved. Use the app together at first. Later, give your child independence as they get used to it.
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Review often. If it’s not working or causing frustration, try a different one. There’s no one-size-fits-all.
Conclusion
Parenting a neurodivergent child takes patience, creativity, and courage. It’s okay if some days feel harder than others. What matters is that you’re learning, adapting, and staying open to tools that can make life smoother.
Technology is not the solution, it’s a support system. When used with intention, it can help your child learn, express, and grow in their own beautiful way.
Parenting in a digital age is about learning to blend tradition with technology. And this is exactly what we’ll be exploring together with our panel of speakers talk at The LagosMums Annual Parenting Conference. So if you haven’t registered for the LagosMums Annual Conference, Register now and join our e-village of parents!!!!!
