This month, we spotlight a mum whose journey is rooted in people, purpose, and possibility. From navigating motherhood without the traditional support of an omugwo experience to building a respected education consultancy, she opens up about resilience, intentional parenting, entrepreneurship, and the importance of creating a strong support system.
Please tell us about yourself. Can you share more about all the hats you wear?
My life sits at the intersection of people, purpose, and possibility. Professionally, I am an Education and Business Management Consultant and the Principal Consultant at Plumptre Advisory. My career has been a journey of climbing from entry-level roles to the C-Suite, spanning over 20 years across foreign missions, healthcare, and education.
Today, I leverage that experience to help families find the right international school destination for their children and support organisations with HR and operational effectiveness.
Beyond the boardroom, I am an intentional parent, a wife and a mother of two. I am also an active mentor, a British Council Certified Counsellor and serve as the Chair of the Education & Schools Group of the Nigerian-British Chamber of Commerce. Each “hat” I wear is connected by a central thread – helping people grow into who they are meant to become.
Share one unexpected thing about you.
I am an unrepentant bargain hunter and an avid K-Drama enthusiast! There’s something about the thrill of a good deal and a very soppy K-Drama storyline that provides the perfect reset.
How did you meet your husband, and how long have you been married?
We were introduced by a mutual friend in church about 32 years ago. We’ve now been married for almost 25 years and I remain grateful for the steady support and strength he brings to our family.
Can you tell us one of the funniest things your child(ren) has done?
When my daughter went away to boarding school, we set up a family tracker app to keep an eye on her location for safety.
Ironically, she ended up using it to track me more than I ever track her! It’s become quite common for me to get a call from her while I’m out, asking – with a very parental tone – why I’m still out so late or why I am not home yet.
How important is a support system for a mum? Who is in your tribe, and what kind of support do you have?
A support system is not a luxury – it is essential. Motherhood was never designed to be done in isolation. My tribe includes my husband, siblings, trusted friends and professional networks. Their support ranges from practical help to emotional encouragement and, sometimes, simply listening. Having people who understand your journey makes a significant difference.
What are some ways that children and parenting are different from when you were growing up and now?
Everything feels more amplified now – more exposure, more information, more pressure. Parenting today requires a much more intentional parenting and informed parenting approach. Children today are navigating a more complex world, and so parenting must evolve to include more intentional conversations, more emotional awareness, and a lot more guidance.
How are you raising your children to be ready for an ever-changing world?
I focus on building strong foundations – values, self-awareness and authenticity. Beyond academics, I encourage critical thinking, curiosity and confidence. I also ensure they are exposed to different perspectives and opportunities, while still being grounded in who they are.
Tell us about your beautiful family and your journey to motherhood.
Motherhood has been one of the most defining journeys of my life – and if I’m honest, nothing quite prepares you for it.
I remember coming home from the hospital with my first child and suddenly realising that it was just me… no omugwo .. no mother or older figure physically present to provide that practical, day-to-day guidance you often take for granted. It was both overwhelming and deeply stretching. I had to figure things out in real time – learning, adjusting and sometimes second-guessing myself along the way.
But in hindsight, that experience shaped me in a powerful way. It pushed me to define motherhood on my own terms and helped me truly understand the weight and privilege of responsibility.
Today, my family is my anchor. They ground me, challenge me, and remind me daily of what it truly means to be an intentional parent. And that early experience has stayed with me – it made me more intentional, more resilient and more present as a mother.
What has motherhood taught you about yourself?
It has taught me that I am far more resilient than I thought. You keep thinking, when they become older it gets better – No! Each phase of life brings joy but also fresh challenges you are presented with, and you need to navigate it with them as a parent. It never stops!
It has also taught me to be more patient – with my children and with myself. Motherhood constantly reminds me that growth is a process, not an event.
What advice would you give to other mums?
There is no perfect formula for parenting. But you need to be intentional, I repeat intentional. Also stay informed but do trust your instincts. And remember, every child is different – get to know your child (the person that they are) and steward appropriately. What works for one child may not work for another.
Burst one motherhood myth!
That good mothers must do everything themselves. The truth is, seeking support and building systems is a strength, not a weakness. Outsource tasks that are not core when the load is much e.g. meal prep, laundry, cleaning, school runs, homework support etc. Some things are non-negotiable priorities though – values & character building, emotional & physical availability, intentional conversations, stewardship etc
Use one word to describe one thing that should not be missing from every home.
PEACE!
How do you balance work and parenting?
I’ll be honest – not very well on many occasions! As an entrepreneur, work has the capacity to take every ounce of you. I don’t believe in a perfect 50/50 balance; I believe in alignment and prioritisation. There are seasons where my business, Plumptre Advisory, needs more of me, and seasons where my family does. The key is having a support system to help pick up the slack and setting clear boundaries when I am “off the clock”.
What do you love the most about your work as an Education Consultant and all the many expressions of your purpose and passion?
The most fulfilling part is seeing transformation – watching a student find the right environment and flourish. There is no greater reward than knowing you played a role in shaping a child’s future and supporting a family’s journey. I am also greatly fulfilled in knowing that our business advisory services to international schools in Nigeria contributes to the framework that supports better student outcomes.
What are some challenges of running a business, and how have you overcome them?
The transition from the C-Suite to entrepreneurship has been a journey of significant “growth pains”. One of the steepest learning curves has been moving from having specialised teams to suddenly having to do everything myself – from high-level strategy to the smallest administrative tasks.
Finding good talent with the right work ethic remains a major hurdle. It can be exhausting to search for individuals who share your vision and professional standards. However, I am navigating this by staying grounded in my values and relying on the robust systems I’ve spent over 20 years building. I’ve learned to be patient with the process, focusing on continuous learning and maintaining integrity in every decision.
Despite these challenges, there is an immense sense of happiness when I look back at how far Plumptre Advisory has come. Seeing the visibility and respect we have gained in the education industry in such a short time is incredibly rewarding. It affirms that the “intersection of people and purpose” isn’t just a philosophy – it’s a foundation that works.
What inspires you to stay positive?
My faith, my family and the impact of my work. Seeing lives change and knowing that what I do contributes to something bigger keeps me grounded and hopeful.
Can you share your self-care tips?
You won’t catch me in the spa…that really irks me I’m afraid. As an introvert in a high intensity people facing role, self-care for me is about creating small, consistent moments of solitude and rest – whether that’s quiet time, catching up on my devotional, watching a good K-drama or simply stepping away to reset.
What do you love about LagosMums?
LagosMums creates a valuable space for sharing real, relatable experiences of motherhood. It brings together a community of women who are navigating similar journeys, offering support, insight and encouragement in a very meaningful way.
Trivia
N1 Million or more sleep?
N1 Million. This can go a long way to support our 2026 marketing budget! Lol!
Would you prefer to go on a shopping spree or an all-expense-paid trip to your dream destination?
All-expense-paid trip to your dream destination. Remember I am a bargain queen.
Homeschooling or Traditional School.
Traditional School. While homeschooling has its merits, I’d much prefer traditional school because of the social interaction and diverse exposure opportunities.
Is AI more good or bad?
Both. It can do incredible damage but has the exponential capacity to affect a lot of sectors and the way we live for good.
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