Few experiences in life are as rewarding and as exciting as becoming a new mom for the first time. It’s also an incredibly mysterious time, as every bit of advice, both solicited and unsolicited, seems to contradict the next. Much of parenting is based upon your own personal style and philosophies, but there are also a few widespread parenting myths that are so accepted amongst new and old moms alike. Before you start worrying about your performance as a parent or concerning yourself with things that simply aren’t happening, it’s best to apprise yourself of old wives’ tales that have little merit.
Here are 5 myths many first time mums believe.
Your “Motherly Instincts” Will Kick Right In
Many expectant mums have been reassured that the bewilderment she feels will somehow magically disappear the moment a newborn is placed in her arms. The truth of the matter is that you will probably leave the hospital only marginally more comfortable than you were before you went in. You will almost certainly never feel like you have all the answers. Very few moms are “instinctively” able to decipher every whimper or cry their babies make, so don’t beat yourself up. Just like most things in life, true expertise comes with experience, not as a result of sudden knowledge imparted by postpartum hormonal changes.
You’ll Just Know How to Breastfeed
Yes, breastfeeding is the most natural and healthy way to feed your new baby. It is one of those things that people claim comes effortlessly to a new mother, this is not necessarily true. There’s a reason why lactation consultants, dedicated support groups and blogs exist solely to cater to breastfeeding assistance. It is not always so easy, especially for first-time mums. Your baby may have trouble latching and you may need coaching on proper positioning. You haven’t failed if your plans to breastfeed does not come easily, it’s not a sign that your maternal instincts are somehow lacking.
Your Baby Will be the Most Beautiful Thing You’ve Ever Seen
When you look at your baby for the first time, you may be completely besotted. That doesn’t mean, however, that she’ll necessarily be beautiful. Birth is difficult, business, and it often shows when a baby’s brand new. She may be discolored, may have a misshapen head from a rough delivery and may even have acne.
You’ll Have Your Old Body Back in No Time
Creating a person takes a toll on your body, and it will show after birth. Breastfeeding, scheduled cesarean section is said to be the solution to losing baby weight and getting back into shape quickly. The truth is that every human body is different. Your best friend might snapback from pregnancy in no time while you may still be struggling to get back to your old body when your little one starts elementary school. In all likelihood, you’ll never look exactly the way you did before you became pregnant. It is not necessarily a reflection on your level of discipline or the amount of effort you’ve put into losing weight.
It’s Just the “Baby Blues”
Postpartum depression is a very real and potentially debilitating condition. Though it’s openly discussed by celebrity moms and parenting experts, many new moms are still confused. Knowing the difference between hormonally-charged mood shifts and bona fide postpartum depression isn’t always easy. It is important to discuss any concerns you’re feeling with a medical professional.
As first time mums, Make sure that you address any questions or worries that you have about parenting advice you’ve received with your baby’s pediatrician. More often than not, they’ll be able to debunk a myth quickly and authoritatively, leaving you reassured.
source: newborncare.com
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