We all get it! Parenting advice we did not ask for. Here are some tips culled from Childdevelopmentinfo on handling unwanted parenting advice. 
“If I were you…”
We’ve all heard this line before. The truth is if the person saying this to you was in your position, they would probably be just as annoyed by the dispensing of unsolicited advice.
But before you get angry or exhibit an icy attitude, here are some tips to help you counter those comments without offending the advice-giver.
Know the intention. Most people mean well, while some like to hear themselves speak and want to be the one who knows it all. But, underneath it all, they only want to help and are basically harmless.
Listen. It never hurts to listen to what someone else has to say. At some point in their statements to you, you might pick up a grain of something useful that you can use. You’ll never know if you tune them out or walk away.
Let it flow right on through. Just because someone offers you their advice doesn’t mean that you’re duty-bound to take it. It may not even apply to your situation. If it does, you can thank them for their contribution. If not, you can do the same without feeling compelled to follow it or argue the point.
Agree or disagree without argument. Even if you strongly disagree with what they’re suggesting, an argument is not necessary. You don’t even have to state your opinion if you don’t want to. Make the decision within yourself and leave it at that.
Do your homework. There is no substitute for knowledge. Take comfort in the fact that you can use your resources to find a solution and don’t have to solely depend on advice from others. Research options for yourself.
Be gracious. No matter what is said, thank the person for their words. Even if you don’t like what they’ve said, a kind word will let you depart without need for argument or further listening on your part.
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