A lot has been said about how COVID-19 affects the health of older generations. Many grandparents feel cut off from one of their greatest joys in life, their grandchildren. Here are some ways for grandparents to stay connected with their grandchildren.
Since the end of March 2020, 69% of grandparents have not met their new grandchildren
face to face. Another 76% have not hugged or touched any of their grandchildren. That’s
according to a survey by the grandparenting organization Gransnet.
While sleep-over visits and hugging may be too risky for a while, there are other ways
to stay in touch. Brush up on the modern rules for supporting healthy and safe relationships between grandparents and grandchildren.
Communication Tips for Modern Families
1. Explain the facts. Your grandchildren probably miss you too, especially if they
were used to seeing you frequently. Provide age-appropriate information about
why seniors have to take extra precautions.
2. Set boundaries. Family members may disagree about COVID-19 precautions.
Coordinate boundaries with the parents.
3. Create a schedule. Routines help us to cope with uncertainty. Plan a weekly
virtual gathering or a daily text with a riddle or a new vocabulary word.
4. Show empathy. Support each other through these difficult times. Maybe you can
offer practical assistance or help your grandchild to put their feelings into words.
5. Explore resources. It may help to talk with other grandparents in similar
situations. Join an online forum where you can discuss common challenges and
discover reliable sources of information and guidance.
Activities You Can Still Share with your Grandchildren
6. Make video calls. Chat on Zoom and Facetime. Quick tutorials can walk you
through the basics or ask another family member for help setting up an account.
7. Write letters. Old-school communications still work. Your grandchild will be
excited to receive a letter or card addressed to them.
8. Share videos. Create lasting memories with videos. Record yourself describing
a story from your family history. Ask your children to capture some moments from
your grandchild’s day.
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9. Send gifts. Presents can make staying at home more pleasant. Maybe your
grandchild can use some educational items that will enrich their home learning.
Maybe the whole family would appreciate a subscription with healthy ingredients
for home-cooked meals.
10. Celebrate milestones. What about holidays and birthdays? If it’s too risky to
gather indoors, you may still be able to have a party online or outside with
distancing and masks.
11. Give tours. Put together a virtual tour to show your grandchildren what you’re
doing. Include footage of your summer vegetable garden and your indoor and
outdoor Christmas decorations.
12. Watch movies. Apps like Netflix party are the closest thing to sitting on the
same couch. Pick a film the family will enjoy, watch it together virtually and
discuss it afterward.
13. Play games. You can also play video games online. Ask your grandchildren to
teach you about their favorite games. You could also surprise them and do a
TikTok video together.
14. Read stories. When is the last time you read to your grandchild? Schedule an
evening video call to share a passage from a book they love. Even if your
grandchild is too young to understand the words, they can become more familiar
with your voice. Older children can take turns reading to you.
15. Eat together. Family meals can be virtual too. Teach your grandchildren how
to make macaroni and cheese or chocolate chip pancakes. Pretend you’re dining
at the same table.
Make sure to talk to your doctor, take care of your mental health and follow all safety
guidelines about family gatherings.
The pandemic has changed our daily routines, but you can still shower your
grandchildren with love and attention.